Compulsive Liars
My husband lives by his own personal motto that he doesn't get mad, he gets even. He is vindictive and spiteful. He takes everything very personal. I notice that since he returned from his Caribbean trip on July 25th that he has 3-alarm times set on his cell phone.
He purposefully has it in the bed beside our heads so that I'm to be awakened at around 4:00 a.m. This means that I fall back into a deeper sleep when the next alarm sounds and I'm not likely to hear which I don't since I'm often working late and going to bed at around 3:00 a.m.
Over the years, he's worked on convincing our daughter that I love my biological son more than I love her. She has now developed this vicious, deep-rooted jealousy that borders on hated for her brother and me. In a recent argument, he's now telling me that I should talk one-on-one with her to repair our relationship.
Meanwhile, this is the first time that I am hearing that we had a relationship that needed to be repaired because when I was on a Caribbean island for 7-months all she would be doing is complaining about him and asking when I would be coming home 'cause he's driving her crazy. Now that I am back three months later, the problem is now me.
I am worried that by creating a problem that doesn't exist, he could be altering her personality and driving her crazy but I am no Dr. Phil. Also, I realize that stress can bring on a lot of conditions that would otherwise not even be a factor in health so I am practicing the art of tuning out.
My husband lives by his own personal motto that he doesn't get mad, he gets even. He is vindictive and spiteful. He takes everything very personal. I notice that since he returned from his Caribbean trip on July 25th that he has 3-alarm times set on his cell phone.
He purposefully has it in the bed beside our heads so that I'm to be awakened at around 4:00 a.m. This means that I fall back into a deeper sleep when the next alarm sounds and I'm not likely to hear which I don't since I'm often working late and going to bed at around 3:00 a.m.
Over the years, he's worked on convincing our daughter that I love my biological son more than I love her. She has now developed this vicious, deep-rooted jealousy that borders on hated for her brother and me. In a recent argument, he's now telling me that I should talk one-on-one with her to repair our relationship.
Meanwhile, this is the first time that I am hearing that we had a relationship that needed to be repaired because when I was on a Caribbean island for 7-months all she would be doing is complaining about him and asking when I would be coming home 'cause he's driving her crazy. Now that I am back three months later, the problem is now me.
I am worried that by creating a problem that doesn't exist, he could be altering her personality and driving her crazy but I am no Dr. Phil. Also, I realize that stress can bring on a lot of conditions that would otherwise not even be a factor in health so I am practicing the art of tuning out.
Labels: compulsive liars, Dr. Phil, liars, lifestyles, relationships
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